Saturday, April 2, 2016

The Low Down...Where Have I Been??

Hi Guys!

I know, I know it’s been a really long time since I last posted!  I honestly don’t have any excuses other than two little boys have been rocking my world.  From 7 am every morning until 8:30/9 pm every night it’s constant go, go, go.  I am extremely exhausted by the time they go to bed and that’s usually the time that I’m able to shower, tidy up the house (yes, I do this every single night) and have some me time.  I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but I’m an introvert and it’s really important for me to have some “me” time or else I start experiencing anxiety and panic attacks.  I need that decompression time because during the day I literally don’t have a moment to myself.  Life has been moving so fast and quite hectic, but I wouldn’t change it for the world.  I cherish these days that I’m able to be with my boys while they’re young and mommy is still their favorite girl.  

To get you up to speed, Ian turned 2 about a month ago and man, he sure does act his age!  Isaac used to attack himself, well now Ian attacks me. He knows better than to attack his brother or dad, so guess who’s the punching bag?  We’re working on this and boy, it’s tough because he may be little, but that boy packs a lot of power!  Also, little man has been struggling with sinuses since last fall and has had a non-stop runny nose.  We’ve taken him to the ENT and he was supposed to have his enlarged adenoids removed, but we had to cancel that.  That’s definitely another post!  We’re going to take him to see another ENT recommended by our awesome pediatrician, so hopefully all goes well!  We also found the culprit responsible for Ian’s eczema.  We made a food journal of everything he ate for about 2 weeks and narrowed it down to blueberries, blackberries, red/purple grapes, guava, and red cherries.  Basically any fruit with a red, purple or deep berry coloring to it.  Once we stopped feeding him those fruits in conjunction with using Lush’s Dream Cream his skin cleared right up. I’ll also write another more detailed post about this and all the products we’re able to use with his sensitive and extremely dry skin. 


On to Isaac!  He’s 4 now and amazes us every day.  I know every parent thinks their kid is so smart, which they should!  We’re no different and strongly believe in nurturing that and providing the necessary resources to help them thrive.  Isaac has been speaking clearly, using advanced concepts and has built up quite the vocabulary for a 4 year old.  He’s been learning to read and is always drawn to math/science concepts.  He’s very willful/stubborn, assertive and is growing more independent (putting on his clothes, brushing/flossing his own teeth, wiping himself after BO, getting his own snacks/foods out of the fridge, buckling himself in his car seat, etc…)  It’s just so cute to see my forever baby growing up into a little boy.  He’s also out and about every day.  We’re very grateful to have a kid friendly neighborhood that’s diverse.  He goes out with his dad every evening before dinner and plays outside with the elementary aged kids.  It’s literally 10-20 kids and makes us so happy to see White, Black, Latino, Asian, Indian, and mixed kids all playing together!  He also won a spot in pre-k for his assigned elementary school. This is something we’re really excited about because it’s a great school/program, it’s 5 days a week and it’ll make his transition to kindergarten even easier, and it’s FREE!  We definitely feel like we’ve won the lottery for sure!  


I have also been exploring advanced education options and possible careers that may interest me in the future.  Once our kids are all in pre-k/elementary it’ll be time for me to get back to it!  I know it’ll probably be quite challenging to get back into the work force after years of being out of it to raise our kids, but we anticipated this before deciding I would become a stay at home mom.  This is why I’m going to make sure I’m passionate about my future career, knowing that I’ll most likely have to start from the bottom and work my way up to where I want to be.  For me the most important thing will be loving my career and having work-life balance.  


That’s where we are in a nutshell.  I will be sure to keep you posted going forward and stay tuned because I will be vlogging our crazy family in the future!